
Human endeavors can be best described within the framework of Purushartha(Raison d’etre – Reason for existence) wherein Moksha(Spiritual liberation) is Paramdharma(Prime Duty), Dharma (Duties towards self, family, society, environment), Artha(Roles that get you social recognition and financial wherewithal to complete your duties and desires) and finally Kama(Desires/attachments). All four co-exist for all humans and depend on what you give priority to, which in turn depends on your level of maturity(learning from wisdom gathered by self or others and making course corrections to life).
You have examples like Sant Dyaneshwar who attained moksha at a very young age and you have people getting married at 92 years unable to let go of Kama, so age has nothing to do with it. Nothing is right or wrong in this world, it is just a matter of realizing what life is all about in an uncertain time period. You cannot choose beyond your maturity. You will attract to yourself only that which your personality emits – it is like a magnet. So examine the content of your life to get a perspective of your life and in doing so you may change the context of your life realising that everything is temporary and to cling on to anything is folly…