Kindness

During travel you come across people from various countries, cultures, backgrounds, dressing, languages, etc. You realise that however different you are, your needs to survive are the same though the imputed needs for comfort and luxury differ radically.

In such situations, how do you communicate with each other? Best communication is that of kindness and that doesn’t apply only to when you are travelling but starts at home, society, work place, etc. Kindness is what is missing and that is why the world is what it is, choosing war mongering leaders and suffering the consequences…

Never too late to up your kindness quotient. The journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step…

Ceasefire

Finally a ceasefire, so business as usual? Does this wipe out the pain and suffering caused to the world? But who cares? So long as the objectives of Power/Wealth/Fame are met – wars will be fought, people will suffer and that, is reality.

Will there ever be a world without wars? At least history doesn’t say so. Like change, even wars are a constant and that is because humans have never been collectively able to wipe out greed, lust, jealousy, … from themselves. That, I thought, was the purpose of every religion but even though everyone professes to follow some religion, they interpret it in a manner that justifies their greed, jealousy, lust, etc. And so the circus continues.

To stay at peace within yourself and with others around you is the greatest religion that one can follow, all the rest is just noise….

Chaos

On a flight I took recently, a drunk man was allowed to board despite everyone (including the airline staff) noticing his state and his unruly behaviour soon upon boarding. Everyone hoped that the man would settle down but he did not. He created such a ruckus throughout the flight abusing the stewardesses, captain, fellow passengers(some of who were helping in managing the drunk, some were eager to knock him out and some were just wishing that peace prevailed)…

Eventually, after 3 hrs of not being served any food/drink, the flight landed but time had already passed and none of us were able to notice the beauty of flying over some of the highest mountains in the world…

And then it struck me that the same thing is happening in the world, some madmen creating ruckus, some trying to manage them, some hoping for peace, with no clarity as to when this flight will land, only to board another similar flight…

So finding peace in the midst of chaos is an essential life skill…

Better version

Just because the Sun is called different things in different cultures/languages does not make the Sun any different or any more personal to anyone.

And so it is with the concept of God – whether you believe or not or by what name you refer to God, doesn’t really matter.

The only thing that matters is whether such a belief/name inspires you to be a better version of yourself in thoughts, words and deeds…

Be inclusive

We may think we are different from others since we follow different religions/faith, believe in different things but the irrefutable fact is that we are humans first and humans last and humanity, love & compassion should be the foundation of our existence.

Be inclusive, celebrate all festivals拾❤️

Celebration in silent charity

Celebration is usually at the culmination of an achievement by an individual/team. Tougher the achievement, more joyous is your feeling and more the reason to celebrate. When there is no achievement, what are you celebrating? Festivals, Marriages, Birthdays, Milestones, etc. Multiple reasons to celebrate but unfortunately the mantra of louder the better is the generally accepted norm these days – a DJ with gigantic speakers(Noise pollution)or worse still there are Karaoke parties where everyone has to endure the torture, Alcohol flowing accompanied with rich oily food that only harms your health(Body pollution), fireworks (Air Pollution), dancing on the roads and blocking traffic(time pollution)etc. Why is creating pollution the way to celebrate? 

Could we redefine celebration to be acts of health, charity, sharing our blessings with the less fortunate ones, improving the quality of the overall environment by planting more trees, etc? Just imagine what a world it would be if we are able to make this small change in the way we celebrate. We would be gifting ourselves and the generations to come a healthier, kinder, unpolluted world and above all an Art of Celebrating.

Can the world really afford war?

Einstein had said that  “I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones”. The way things are going, this may not be a distant future…

Whilst science &  technology has evolved to Space Travel, AI, etc unfortunately the minds of people have remained unevolved – greed, lust, anger etc are still being justified & glorified. Peace of mind is not even a criteria for being considered a successful person. Consequently, we have a world that has Wars, Pollution, Corruption, Global Warming & a host of other problems that are almost impossible to solve…

As Lord Krishna says in the Bhagavad Gita “For one who has controlled one’s mind, their mind is their best friend. But for one who has not done so, their mind will be their greatest enemy.” Unfortunately most people and their elected or self appointed leaders are in the latter category and so the circus continues…

Happy Wo/mens Day

It is a co-dependent reality that we are born to, there’s a woman in every man and a man in every woman. 

We’ll keep trying to figure out what God had in mind whilst creating this co-dependent Wo/men, each seems incomplete without the other and both think “can’t live with you, can’t live without you”😉

Celebrate both the feminine and masculine in you.

Happy Wo/mens Day❤️

War and Peace

History is full of who conquered whom and how. So wars have always been a part of Human History(Can’t say Civilization since we are yet to achieve that status). If Saints and God Himself wanted this different, then it would already have been a peaceful world but the fact remains it isn’t and it will never be. Why? They want each one of us transformed and that can happen only when each one goes through the trial of fire.

So the game is not external but internal – people like Viktor Frankl, Anne Frank have shown it’s possible to experience love in the midst of terrible tragedy. So you have to change the rules of the game for yourself and move against the current of the society which is so beautifully captured by this doha of Sant Kabir “Khada Kabir Bazar Mein, Mange Sabki Khair, Na Kahu se dosti, Na kahu se Bair”