Peace

People are chasing myriad ways to lengthen their lifespan, without finding peace in the present moment. Then what’s the point?

The principles of finding peace are simple 1. To know that everything is impermanent – which can be simply observed and 2. To develop an attitude of compassion in everything you do. Knowing this is easy, living it is difficult. Hence the people able to do the latter are called Saints, who are far and few.

If your spiritual path is not making you a humble, compassionate person, rexamine it and make a course correction.

How much/many?

How many friends would you accept on social media to know that just one good friend is enough?

How many places will you travel to, till you say you’ve seen the world? 

How much money would you like to have, to you say it’s enough?

How many desires will you fulfil to know it was never about fulfilling desires? 

The answer my friend is blowin in the wind, the answer is blowin in the wind….

Swadeshi

I am typing this message on an American laptop, sent using a Chinese manufactured mobile, sipping South Indian coffee, wearing Thai cotton…This was what globalisation intended till Trump happened and we responded with a call for Swadeshi(Make in India). So now Americans will consume mostly American, Indians will consume mostly Indian, Chinese are already consuming only Chinese but is that the optimum solution? Ask the Indians who are craving the H1B visa or the Chinese BYD EV which is supposed to be the best Value for money EV in the market today… 

Is Swadeshi truly possible in today’s age and time when we are dependent on various countries for critical resources – Oil, Semiconductors, etc. Yes it is possible that we will build up capabilities over time and go down the same learning curve that companies based in other countries have already gone through and yes it might provide more jobs to the locals for the short term but it will compromise on the quality of product/service and the ultimate price would be paid by the consumers who have to accept less than optimum products/services.  

The answer lies in delinking commerce with country politics/personalities but they are so deeply connected that it is virtually impossible to do so. The Nobel Prize, in my view, could be given to the people who are able to achieve this and that would truly be an era of borderless globalisation…But then is anyone even interested?

Declutter

Whether you evaluate your life in terms of time or money, you are wasting ​both by accumulating and managing clutter(things that you don’t really need or use). I realised this once more when I had to spend time deleting mails from my gmail account and observed that I shouldn’t have allowed the clutter to accumulate in the first place. As they say, if you wish to save/conserve water then you have to first find and plug the leak. Time is non-renewable so don’t spend it on things that are useless…

Use the declutter techniques of  “Not used for more than 1 year” or simply think that you are shifting your home and are moving into a studio apartment – what would you take and what would you leave? It is difficult to let go of the objects with emotions attached – Oh I bought this on this trip or so & so had gifted it to me, etc. Most difficult is the clutter of relationships we have with people. This is emotional clutter which also has to be eventually dealt with.

Self Realisation is nothing but realising that “I/Me/Mine” is the ultimate clutter that has to be decluttered, sooner the better…

Ronin

In Feudal Japan, “Samurai” were warriors who protected their Lord/Master and were called “Ronin” upon passing away of their Lord/Master. The underlying warrior remained the same but just the nomenclature changed since they did not perform any specified role anymore.

When people give prime importance to “doing” over “being” complications arise and you feel lost/inferior if you don’t do something respectable in the eyes of the society. Very few can move away from this trap of allowing “doing” to define you since almost everyone is in the same trap. So they keep “doing” as per dictates of their ego not knowing that bliss is possible by simply changing the context of life and not the content. Changing the context means transcending ego – “being” instead of “doing”…

So where ego is the master, it is better to be a Ronin than a Samurai. 

Confirmation Bias

“Confirmation Bias” is the tendency to interpret new evidence as confirmation of one’s existing beliefs or theories. Most people work through this paradigm and denounce what doesn’t fit their opinions – hence the conflict between Hindu Muslims, bhakts and non bhakts, Bulls and Bears, etc continues unabated. 

There are whole new worlds out there waiting to be experienced if only we can step out of our limiting beliefs.  

Welcome to the concept of omnipotence 

For one to be right the other needn’t be wrong,

For one part to grow the other needn’t shrink/die,…

We are all Divine and hence omnipotent – we need to start living it and experience a completely different world of possibilities which starts with realising the Divinity within…

In is the only way out…

Happy Birthday Baba

How we behave, what response we choose to any situation, is always in our hands…

To choose excellence in whatever we do is a habit that we must inculcate along with the habit of wishing & doing well for everyone…

Happy Birthday Baba and thanks for inspiring us to look towards better possibilities of existence.

It reminds me of the quote “All of us are in the gutters, but some of us are looking at stars”….❤️🌻

Happy Dussehra

Dussehra is when you polish and worship your weapons to enable Good to triumph over Evil but the dividing lines between the two have blurred so much that it’s difficult to distinguish…

There is evil in all of us in the form of kama, krodh, moha, mada, matsar, which is metaphorically referred to as Mahishasur or Ravan, but there is also good which is the faculty of conscience that is Ma Durga or Lord Ram that guides us to steer away from these demons that reside within us and to uphold good in the world.

Pray that you are granted the courage to uphold your conscience in every situation. That is the best offering you could give to Ma Durga/ Lord Ram

Happy Dusshera

Zero Base

Everyone needs a break, especially from oneself. If you observe, from the moment you wake up to the time you go to sleep you attend to your habits of what you do, how you behave, what you eat, how you sit,….This is dependent not only on yourself but also your surroundings, you behave differently when at home, at office, on vacation…you behave differently when around different people…But a combination of all these varying habits is what you term as “I” which is not a constant, it keeps changing as per situations.

In Accounting, Zerobased budgeting (ZBB) is a budgeting method that requires all expenses to be justified and approved in each new budget period – wherein you make forecasts based on absolutely zero past overhangs – this provides a perspective of the future possibilities without the limitations of the past/legacy. Similarly, you need to do a zero base budgeting for your own life to disconnect from your past and think of where you want to use the energies that you have been granted for the remainder of your life. If you like the possibilities that this exercise throws up, then choose one that resonates best with your wisdom and work towards it one day at a time and have the acceptance to forgo all the other possibilities that cannot be accommodated in your plan….

Where do you draw the line?

Bribing a traffic ​cop for a traffic violation, 

Cheating on your spouse, 

Accepting/paying money for ​winning contracts,

​Adulteration of milk, paneer, other items,

Buying pirated books…

Usual things happening on a daily basis and we seem to have accepted them as a part of ‘normal’ life and people who don’t accept all this are termed ​’Raja Harishchandra​’ & viewed as not ‘worldly wise’…​Most people want the world to be black and white but in reality it is many shades of grey…​

​It reminds me of a question by a friend that if we know that the world is filled with corruption should we teach our children how to deal with it & live in a corrupt world or that corruption shouldn’t be tolerated? The answer is actually a bit of both but acceptance and non-tolerance rarely stay under the same roof, so the struggle continues…

Here I take a leaf from my fathers approach to his career as a Police Officer wherein he told all his juniors that I will not indulge in corruption and till you work with me do not indulge in it, what you did before or after is your Karma. So you have to steer yourself away from indulging in corruption but be aware that it exists in varying degrees so also know how to deal with it…

There is no right or wrong answer here, it is just where you draw the line….